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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 25.06.2025 01:02

How does one succeed in life?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Ask yourself:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What I need from you?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Making more friends is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What was your best unexpected reunion with your childhood best friend?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hangs out with loser friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.